In my line of work—date coaching—I get all kinds of questions, ranging from how to contact someone before the date to when it’s appropriate to call yourselves exclusive… Many of these questions revolve around the emailing process on the various online dating sites.
Let’s take a peek at some of them: Question: Some of the emails are obvious that I will not be answering, but I'm wondering what I should do about winks and the emails that are not so obvious what to do with.
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Answer: To answer your question, for the ones who either wink or write short messages, it's up to you whether to write/respond after reading their profiles. On the one hand, maybe they are just lazy by doing that, and on the other, maybe they're clueless as to how this thing works, too.
The good ones will send (or respond with) an email showing that they at least read some part of your profile.
Or, you could always prompt them with something like, “Thanks so much for writing!
I’m curious to know what piqued your interest in my profile.” Then, they’ll either answer that question or they won’t.
If you do want to soften it a little, you could say, "That sounds great.
Tuesday or Thursday might work for me if that works for you." It's a little less forward and more "cool" with the word "might" in there and removing the time (after ).But, to be honest, the way you responded was more than appropriate.Question: It’s been my experience that women sometimes read into things that men simply don't.Question: A problem I am currently having with guys is the "date follow-through." Guys will ask me out on a date online, usually saying something like "Let's get drinks next week." I say something like, "That sounds great.I'm free on Tuesday and Thursday after work around ." Then sometimes, they don't get back to me.Or (in the case of the one guy I had a great date with) he said, "Let's hang out this week." I gave him my schedule in the same way as above. I say, "Maybe the weekend." Two days later and no response. I'm a very forward and direct person in general and have to make sure that I limit this trait because guys want to be in control.