Looking for a woman who appreciates a man who pays attention to her. And those reading are like, “Where the hell has this dude been finding dates? ” We all want someone who is honest and faithful and who appreciates attention. If you love to randomly shout out, “NOoooooooone expects the Spanish Inquisition!When you call attention to those obvious areas, this is a huge red flag that you are hurting and can make others skittish to approach. Most profiles are full of this fluff, so people either move on or default to the best-looking photos. In fact, I am guaranteed to quote every Monty Python movie. Unless you happen to live on the coast, one image is a vacation activity. ” then you want someone who not only gets you but who also appreciates you.
Few things are sexier than a woman who smiles all the time. I love Renaissance festivals and want a man who can be trusted with a sword. Currently, I’m training to summit Kilimanjaro next year. Instead, try: I’m and avid mountain climber and my ideal match would love to embrace the sport with me. Believe it or not, there are people out there who love fluffy people.
Tip #4—Be Interesting Everyone likes a walk on the beach. I could even see us training to summit Kilimanjaro together. Eventually, you’ll have to meet a potential partner in person and it just ticks people off to be lied to. There are men who don’t mind big women, and women who don’t mind guys with meat. If you don’t have Photo Shoppe, I recommend Pic Monkey. We all have that one picture that’s awesome but the light was terrible, or the background was cluttered, or the angle gave us a turkey neck we really don’t have. of WANA International and the founder of the social site for creatives, WANATribe.
When you reach beyond being interesting to being interested, you paint a picture where the potential mate can see herself…next to you. For years I was overly conscious of my big thighs, only to find out later that a lot of men loved the very thing I was trying to hide. Feel free to touch it up and put your best forward. Just be mindful that touching-up and completely-and-utterly-altering are two different things.
Tip #7—Be Truthful If you aren’t single, don’t lie. Thing is, we don’t know, and we need to give people a little credit. *** Kristen Lamb is the author of the #1 best-selling books We Are Not Alone–The Writer’s Guide to Social Media and Are You There, Blog? Feel free to follow her weekday blog or find her on Facebook and Twitter.
Here you'll find suggestions on how to describe yourself, for those of you seeking assistance and guidance in creating a dating profile.
Learn how to attract attention with interesting details, that are sure to keep those friend requests coming...An online dating site is an interesting portal to meet new people, and join groups with like-minded individuals.It is an opportunity to dip your feet into the dating networking pool, meant for those interested in meeting singles online. Kristen Lamb We’ve talked about reasons to give on-line dating a try and we also chatted about ways to spot predators, so today? How do we write a profile guaranteed to pique interest?Tip #1—Be Brief It’s a profile, not an essay contest.Just because the dating site gives you 3,000 words to describe yourself, doesn’t mean you should use them ALL.