Whether it’s spending time with family and friends, at work or alone. The person you were speaking to one day, may have moved on the next.
The fast-paced nature of online dating can mean it’s often easier to simply ignore communication.
The beauty of online dating is that most sites offer filters to specify what daters are looking for. Surrender – You can’t always control the outcome The urge to a control situation, especially with online dating is tempting.
It may be time to let go of preconceived notions of what you you want. It may be age, height, area, education, whatever it is, give it a go. It’s not easy putting yourself out there and many of us don’t want to experience rejection or embarrassment.
However practicing the art of surrender can be one of the most fulfilling and rewarding experiences of all.
Maybe you have contacted someone or are waiting to confirm a date? What will happen will happen and no amount of wishing or worrying will affect the outcome. Be true to yourself – Update your profile There is no greater feeling than being in true alignment with yourself. When you are true to yourself it will always radiate through to others.
Review your profile and assess how you have described yourself and what pictures you are using. Attract the right people by presenting yourself as authentically as you can. Be kind to yourself – Rejection is OK Rejection is part of the online dating experience.
It can be difficult and sometimes upsetting but we need it in order to find those who are right for us. Rejection isn’t a reflection on you or your worth, it’s simply a process.
Practice self-love and kindness even in the face of rejection. Let go of what doesn’t serve you – Don’t dwell on the past When online communication goes sour, we have a bad date or expectations are not met, we often ask why.
While it’s good to be aware of a situation and reflect on what happened, once you have, let it go.
We often talk about incorporating mindfulness into our day-to-day lives, but have you considered applying it to your dating life?
Online dating blogger Miss Wooable shares her top tips for mindful dating and keeping a positive mindset.
Online dating can be both exhilarating and exhausting.