Usually he will again go to her that night with his light in hopes that she will blow it out and accept him.
Most cultures have unique dating and courtship rituals that are strictly follow, and the native Americans were no different in this.
Native American dating was much different than we can even imagine.
The culture at one time was much different than most people are familiar with.
One of the main rituals that were involved in Native American dating was known as the Crane Dance.
This dance was often when the women would dress up in bright clothing all decorated for the dance.
This was the point when men could get a good look at the available women since the dance usually lasted for a couple days.
As the Crane dance went on usually a young man would see a woman that did strike his fancy.
Unlike our current dating customs, the native American dating customs required that the young man speak to his mother who then would speak to the mother of the girl he was interested in.
After the mothers have been spoken to the young man is told he is allowed to come to the lodge.